Violent Loss Resources Newsletter, May, 2017

Contents:

 Topic of the Month:

Traumatic Grief after Violent Dying Conference

 News:  Free Monthly Meetings in San Diego as well as upcoming            

Restorative Retelling Groups. 

Resources of the Month: South Africa, Philadelphia, Christine                                                                               Grimmie

  Inspiration: Sandy Hook Four Years Later

 Question of the Month-What are you doing to move forward?

Topic of the Month: Traumatic Grief after Violent Dying Conference held April 8 & 9 in La Jolla, CA  received  outstanding reviews from attendees, presenters who donated their time and the planning committee who worked on this project for a year.  

 Here is what they said:

The most valuable part was the experienced speakers and the depth of knowledge from the presenters.  the survivors insight was invaluable.IMG_4395-sunday End with Dr Rynearson

Best conference I have ever attended.  Usually I am waiting for the conference to end, but not this time.  Thank you again for an outstanding conference.  I have received overwhelmingly positive feedback from  my staff.

The resounding passion of professionals who work with these issues.

Beautiful, comfortable venue, well-organized presentations, and a jaw-dropping series of speakers . There was a sense of shared purpose that could not be denied.  People are very excited about Restorative Retelling.

Best conference we have ever held. IMG_4346 bubbles (1)

 

 

 

 

Stay tuned to where the next conference will be, and let us know if you wish to partner with us to bring one to your city. Follow this newsletter blog or contact Laura Jeffs, at Virginia Mason Separation and Loss services.  laura.jeffs@virginiamason.org

For more photos of the conference go to Saturday Photos and Sunday Photos

News:

Free Monthly Meetings in San Diego are starting as well as upcoming Restorative Retelling Groups and Services.    Restorative Retelling is an evidence based approach that has helped reduce the symptoms for survivors that have lost someone to a violent death.  The first meeting is May 16, 6:30pm in convenient Mission Valley. Contact Tammy Carter, MFTI for more information and the address at 619-685-0005.

 Resource of the Month:   This section of the newsletter usually introduces you to one resource but this newsletter is different.  Three new resources will be added as we are excited about the important work they are doing.  Please visit their websites and thank them for being a part of the solution and helping to expand resources for those following a violent death.

National Homicide Justice Alliance/ Justice for Alex Now

National Homicide Justice Alliance(1)

We are families of murder victims who are uniting to find justice for our loved ones, to support one another to find healing and promote peace in our communities.

Their Vision: To facilitate the union of a grassroots alliance of families of homicide.  We are the persons most directly affected by homicide and gun violence. We will focus on determining our own needs as families of homicide victims, advising, fostering programs, and promoting legislation, which will work for peace and justice and the cause of families of homicide victims.

http://www.justiceforalexnow.com/national-homicide-justice-alliance

The Christina Grimmie Foundation

On June 10, 2016, Christina Grimmie  was a fan favorite of NBC’s  The Voice who died of gunshot wounds inflicted in a targeted attack that followed her concert performance in Orlando, Florida.

Her foundation was set up as a legacy to her and her website says: Some stars shine so brightly that they shine forever.  When families encounter tragedy, we support them, with love.  The Christina Grimmie foundation exists to support families who have lost a loved one to gun violence and support for families facing breast cancer diagnosis.

https://christinagrimmiefoundation.org/

Modiegi Sekedi Motlhabane Foundation 

The foundation  is an Nonprofit  located in South Africa founded after the murder of her daughter by her mother Patricia who writes:

 Good evening, this e-mail serves the appreciation of finding your program of the impact of violent death to families-restorative retelling model on the internet. I am one of the mothers impacted.I was doing a lot of mistakes when running the homicide support group without guide lines/materials, but since I started studying your collaboration data my practice has improved a lot, I wish to see you visiting SOUTH AFRICA, people here are brutally murdered to xenophobic, taxi war, bank armed robbery, intimate relationships and so on, families need to be attended but how, so many marches were done but xenophebic attack is prolonging and dying violently is spreading. This Foundation was the recipient of several of The Journey Workbooks. 

Inspiration: 60 Minutes Returns to Newtown

In case you missed it, click on the link below to catch the 60 Minutes follow-up with families in Newtown who lost first graders and educators.  There are touching messages of the forever pain that exists and inspirational missions that families are working on to make a difference and honor their loved ones.

Jimmy Greene: There have been those that have said things like, “You know, so you guys are good now?” Or “I hope you’ve had some closure to your daughter’s murder.” In the back of my heart and I know in Nelba’s, as well, it’s like our family will never be intact again. Our daughter, Ana, was 6 years old.

60 Minutes returns to Newtown Four Years Later

Question of the Month-What are you doing to move forward?
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Violent Loss Resources Team — Contact us

Connie Saindon: csaindon@svlp.org
Larry Edwards: larry@larryedwards.com