SVLP Will NOT Close!!

Announcement!!

Survivors of Violent Loss Program Will   NOT Close!!!!

December 14 marked the day SVLP received an  email that said the program would continue under new management with support and training from the current team.  A new Board has been elected and will be in place January 1, 2012.  The current SVLP office will close and the current Board will resign effective December 31. 

Be assured that the phone number ( 619-685-0005) or our email: svlp@svlp.org  is still how to reach the program for services.   Laura Carr, will ensure that services will continue for those who have lost a loved one to murder or another violent loss.  Michelle Illiff will continue as a clinician onsite at the new office location at 2333 First Ave., Suite 204, San Diego, CA 92101.

Two new teams have emerged  from this “close call”.

 ”Friends of Survivors of Violent Loss.  An all volunteer team comprised of those committed to continue collaboration with other agencies and to ensure SVLP’s annual events continue. Those include participation at VACC’s Candlelight Tribute, Crime Stoppers “Light the Night Against Crime”, River of Remembrance at the Crime Victims Oak Garden and the Holiday Memorial.  Email us if you want to consider volunteering here. 

 

Violent Loss Resources: committed to providing free training and support to other nonprofit agencies to provide services or do groups for their members/clients.  Different levels of training will be provided to include: peer led time limited support groups, criminal death support group and  restorative retelling training for clinicians. Email or contact us to sign up or inquire about more information. 

Many of you have let us know how important this program has been for you.  I hope you will be pleased to hear this news.  The challenge continues still.  SVLP needs your time, talent or money  to continue to be a service for San Diego and not visit this crisis again.

Happy New Year to you all!

 

 

Connie Saindon

Founder, Survivors of Violent Loss Program

Join us at our upcoming  Holiday Memorial. Look at this flyer for details.  Holiday Memorial Flyer 2011 pdf

River of Remembrance Ceremony in Honor of National Day of Remembrance for Murder Victims-September 24, 2011

Please Pass on to Others

Do you have a favorite quote or symbol? Please post yours on our blog.

I am prompted by Jayce Dugard’s  telling us about what her  pine cone symbol means to her.  She tells us it is the last thing she saw of her life after she was stunned and kept captive for 18 years was a pine cone.  Now, she wears a pine cone on a necklace for her symbol of “hope and new beginnings”  What do you have as a symbol for you?  My symbol for my sister is the iris, take a look at my collection http://hopegallery.smugmug.com/Other/Flowers/17036820_83RLPR#433557535_L7tmZ.  Let us hear from you  too.  What symbols or quotes help you?

Ten Week Restorative Retelling Group

This group is open to anyone who has had a loved one die in a violent way.

This is a closed group meeting that meets for ten weeks with the same people.   Pre-screening is required up to two weeks before the group start date.  Please call (619) 274-2853 to set up a consultation.  If you have already completed the pre-screening, then call to reserve a spot in the group and clear your calendar for ten weeks.

Location:  3660 Clairemont Dr, Ste 2, San Diego CA 92117

TRIGGERS!!

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TRIGGERS!!!

We have heard from many of you during this time of heightened news pertaining to both Chelsea King and  Amber Dubois that you too have been “triggered” with reliving memories and emotions  of your own loss(es) or that of someone you know as well. 

Not only do I also re-live the loss of my sister who was 17 when she was murdered, but I am also “triggered” by so many of you who’s stories I know and  worked with at the Survivors of Violent Loss Program.  My sister “Tiny” was walking alone one December morning.   Both of these girls were walking/running  alone- in daylight too. Tiny did her usual ten minute walk  to catch her ride  beauty school in Portland, Maine.  

We would like to hear from you on “triggers” you have had.  This will help you hear from others and know  you are not alone. Having “triggers” ( memories, emotions) is normal and may occur when both clear and unknown reminders occur like learning of the deaths of these young girls. 

Let us hear from you…

Connie Saindon

Clinical Director of Survivors of Violent Loss Program and online network

Touching Article

Dear SVLP Community

One of our survivors was deeply touched by this article and shared it with us. We hope you find some benefit from it.

“From one crash survivor to another: Advice for Ruben van Assouw, sole survivor of Libyan plane crash” -  latimes.com

http://shar.es/mYXHc

Feel free to share any thoughts and reflections that may come up for you related to the article.

The SVLP Team

Garage Sale Fundraiser

Do you have STUFF?             

Too good to throw away

“Donate it” &/Or “Come Shop!”

to

Survivors of Violent Loss Program

“Garage Sale Fundraiser”

  May 22 from 8am to 2pm

At 4012 Mount Barnard Ave, SD 92111

Deliver your “stuff” between May 15-21 (daytime only) and then come shop May 22.

Fresh bakery goods  for purchase

&  SVLP signature  hearts of lavender and pine balsam in time for memorial day.

Want to volunteer? Or have questions?

  Email  svlp@svlp.org or call (619) 685-0005

SVLP HOLIDAY MEMORIAL – DEC. 12, 2009

THE SURVIVORS OF VIOLENT LOSS PROGRAM
Invites You to Our 11th Annual
 
HOLIDAY MEMORIAL
 
Mark your calendars for 
 
SATURDAY, DECEMBER 12, 2009
11:00 am – 1:30 pm
 
Location: Survivors of Violent Loss Program
3660 Clairemont Dr., Suite 2
San Diego, CA 92117
 
You are asked to bring
Friends and Family,
An Ornament Symbolizing Your Loved One       
to Hang on Our Holiday Tree,
and a Poem or Words of Inspiration. 

 Please RSVP at svlp@svlp.org or (619) 685-0005

Don’t Forget!

We have a new address!

3660 CLAIREMONT DRIVE, STE 2, SAN DIEGO, CA 92117

Our phone number, website and email are the same:

619-685-0005.—- www.svlp.org—- svlp@svlp.org